The way I see it, let the individual churches decide if they want to marry gay couples. Marriage is religious (if it isn't it's a civil union). The government interfering with religion against the law, and not just any law, the Constitution.

That's what pedophiles say...

Unfortunately no it's not.  I got married in a court house because neither my wife nor I are religious and we didn't want a big wedding.  Our marriage is still valid though.  Marriage is a legal contract which is part of the reason why divorces can be so messy, they can be caused by breaches in that contract.

In a pedophiles case the love is NOT mutual.  The children are not old enough to make that decision or understand those feelings and therefore the love is simply not mutual.